tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-47110714453385880432024-02-21T21:10:56.959+09:00Raggedy LambAll of us like sheep have gone astray,
each of us has turned to his own way;
but the LORD has caused the iniquity of us all
to fall on Him.
~Isaiah 53: 6Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.comBlogger111125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-71345200127032342732013-05-26T16:13:00.000+09:002013-05-26T16:13:20.545+09:00What is Love?A few days ago, I was reading someone's comments on a Facebook friend's wall. That person asserted that as an athiest, her highest aim in life was not some god, but LOVE. She lived her life knowing that she loved everyone. (I wanted to compliment her on her perfection, but I didn't want to start a fight. I also wanted to say something, but really didn't have time to "chat." Not to mention that I wasn't exactly sure how I wanted to say what I was thinking, because usually my thoughts are so disorganized that even I don't understand myself most of the time.)<br />
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This morning I read the following from Richard Wurmbrand's <strong><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/100-Prison-Meditations-Curtain-ebook/dp/B004P8K2PG/ref=sr_1_fkmr0_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1369551245&sr=8-2-fkmr0&keywords=100+Prison+meditations%3A+Cries+of+Truthe+from+Behind+the+Iron+Curtain" target="_blank">100 Prison Meditations: Cries of Truth from Behind the Iron Curtain</a></em></strong>. The part I wish I could have shared on my friend's FB wall is the highlighted portion.<br />
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">As creatures of the earth, we think of God as being on high,
declaring, “His glory [is] above the heavens” (Psalm 113:4), while the heavenly
beings think of Him as being below, declaring, “Let Your glory be above all the
earth” (Psalm 57:5).<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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</span>Both have limited vision. God is outside of space. The One who is all in
all cannot have a certain place to dwell, to the exclusion of other places.
Therefore Christ, who is God, says, “Foxes have holds and birds of the air have
nests, but the Son of man has nowhere to lay His head” (Matthew 8:20). If He
were limited to space, He would not belong to the Godhead.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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</span>God occupies no place anywhere. As Creator of the Universe, He existed
before there was such a thing as place. Space is required by material objects,
but not by thoughts, ideals, and desires, which do not rest in a point fixed by
geographical coordinates. God is Spirit, not a material object that must exist
somewhere. When the Bible says that He is in heaven, it is to indicate His
elevation. God dwells in Israel, in Zion, in His church: such things are said
for the purpose of giving honor to an institution or a people. But these
assertions in the Bible are never exclusive – they do not limit God. They do
not mean that He is in Zion, but not in Britain; in church, but not in a
factory.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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</span>Nor can time be applied to God. The biblical Hebrew has no tenses to
indicate time; you cannot say that things have been or are or will be. You
enter the sphere of divinity, of timelessness. The Hebrew verb has only two
fundamental categories, the perfect and the imperfect. <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Oseh</i> means “in the process of being done.” <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Asah</i> indicates completed action. Biblical Greek also has a verb
form called Aorist, which literally translated means “without horizon.” God
created the universe, which has time as one of its attributes, but He and His
people are timeless. He was when there was no time. He will be when “there
should be time no longer” (Revelation 10:6, KJV).<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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</span>God is called Father and King because we humans associate these titles
with our concept of esteem. He did not procreate us a father did. He did not
become king by inheritance or conquest as other kings do. He is above all that
we can say in human words.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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David Livingstone went to the cannibals in Africa, he wished to teach them “God
is love,” but they did not have the word “love.” So he asked them what was the
best thing they knew. They replied, “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Unboi</i>,”
which is the smoked meat from the arm of a man. So Livingstone preached, “God
is the best <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">unboi</i>.” He was criticized
for this, but wrongly. God is not <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">unboi</i>,
it is true, but neither is He love. Love is a sentiment shared by humans and
superior animals. But is God merely a human sentiment? Because love was the
highest thing the Greeks knew, John said, “God is love,” just as Livingstone
said, “God is <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">unboi</i>,” for those who
knew no better.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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</span>There are no human words and categories to indicate how and where God
is. Whenever attributes are applied to God, they are what are called “anthropomorphisms,”
likenesses from human life that are used to tell something about Him. We are
limited in our thoughts and words about God, but let us know that, beyond all
our limitations, He is.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-36250688286842989422013-01-05T21:41:00.001+09:002013-01-05T21:41:43.300+09:00New Year's Resolutions? No, Thank You!I gave up on making New Year's resolutions a long time ago. There's just too much going on at this time of year. Making up some goal about how I was going to improve and change myself never seemed true. And this year, I thought I would continue my bold tradition. Afterall, whenever I've made a resolution on January 1st, it'd be broken before the 2nd arrived. Pretty much.<br />
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Then, I went out and bought a scale. The one we have is not very accurate, and it's getting rusty and ugly. So, I decided it was time to face the music. I had just finished reading <em>Eat to Live</em> by Dr. Joel Fuhrman, and I was shocked to read that my ideal weight was about 40 pounds less than what I now weigh! I have to do something about that. I still haven't figured out how to use the scale, though. It measures more than your weight, and I have to read the manual (in Japanese, of course) to know how to input my data. Then when I stand on the scale I'll find out how much I weigh, how much fat I have, and how much (little?) muscle, and perhaps a few other things. I probably don't want to know, but when I was reading in <em>Eat to Live</em>, I was reminded how eating more nutrient rich foods is much better for you. I used to be quite careful about eating foods in as close to their natural state as possible, but I've really gotten lazy in the past 5 years or so. It shows. <br />
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So, I suppose that means I DO have a New Year's resolution, doesn't it? And so, yesterday, I decided would be a good day to stop saying, "Tomorrow, I'll begin." I've never smoked cigarettes, (so I don't know what it's like to quit smoking), but my first day of no coffee... YUCK! Actually, I don't know if it was the not having coffee that made me feel so awful, or if I was coming down with a bug anyway and it just happened to conincide with the day I started this new experiment. Anyway, I had headache like one I've never had before. I ate something in order to take an aspirin, and as soon as I swallowed it, everything came back up. So, yesterday's start didn't go as planned, but I guess you could say my stomach was kind of detoxed.<br /><br />Today went better. I forced myself to get up at a decent hour, made a simple breakfast for me and my husband. (Two of the three kids were sick and not in the mood for breakfast, and the third kid just kept on sleeping.) And as I puttered around the house doing light work, I thought of two more New Year's resolutions. Yes, I did. <br />
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Clean kitchen sink. Clean kitchen table. Every day. If you know about Flylady, you're already familiar with her clean kitchen sink concept. We'll see how it goes. If I can convince (coerce?) my kids to NOT put their used dishes and cups in the sink and just walk away, I will not be much of a grump when I get into the kitchen to do meal preparations. And if I can keep the kitchen table cleared of all the junk that gets put there, it will be a much more pleasant eating experience. So, that was today's mission, and I did it! Now, I have to announce it to my family. <br />
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I wonder if I should teach them the saying, "If momma ain't happy, nobody's happy." Nah, that'd be too much like manipulation, wouldn't it?<br />
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One plus one plus one comes to three resolutions for 2013. Oh, my!Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-74094247747222036552012-12-26T14:50:00.001+09:002012-12-26T14:53:14.150+09:00~2012~<span style="color: #cc0000; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif; font-size: large;"><em> <span style="color: white;"> Merry Christmas and Happy New Year </span></em></span><br />
<span style="color: white; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif; font-size: large;"><em> from my family to you and yours!</em></span><br />
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Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-1684864808142644102012-12-19T10:45:00.003+09:002012-12-19T10:45:33.051+09:00Listening to:<a href="http://justandsinner.blogspot.jp/2012/12/how-christians-should-respond-to.html" target="_blank">How Christians Should Respond to Suffering and Tragedy</a> by Pastor Jordan Cooper, because 2012 has been continuing the human tradition of awful stuff.<br />
Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-3002467440756435562012-12-18T23:17:00.001+09:002012-12-18T23:17:25.735+09:00Coming out of the WoodworkIt's nearing the end of 2012, and it's time to put my school things away for a few weeks and pay more attention to my family. (Not that I DON'T pay attention to them, but... well, maybe I don't so much these days.)<br />
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2012 was a year of:</h2>
Getting on with life after the earthquake and tsunami of March 3, 2011.<br />
Getting used to having two kids in university, and only one kid at the dinner table.<br />
Getting a longer waistline. <br />
Getting things out of the closets without ever seeming to get things back into the closets again.<br />
Getting to work at several nice schools with students who are pretty nice people.<br />
Getting to have my firstborn come home for a few weeks, and getting to see her all dressed up in<em> </em><br />
<em> furisode</em>, the long-sleeved kimono that unmarried women traditionally wore.<br />
Getting the pleasure of seeing two of my daughters gain full-time work at good companies. <br />
Getting some relief that my last child could pass the entrance into university a few months <br />
ahead of the usual testing time.<br />
Getting grayer and more "smiley" marks in the corners of my eyes.<br />
Getting forgiven daily by Jesus who humbled Himself to be born of a virgin just so He could die <br />
in my place in order to reconcile me to His Father, the Creator and Sustainer of everything.<br />
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2012 was a pretty good year.<br />
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We have a custom. When one of us five girls is not there for a group shot, a stuffed animal sits in our place. This time the two of us who live too far away to attend are there in the photo frames. Sister # 3 is holding my picture (#1). Sister #2 is holding #4's picture and #5's three-year-old son. And next to Mom is Sister #5 with her 15-month old daughter on her lap.<br />
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We continue to be thankful and amazed that Mom has not suffered the usual pain that accompanies cancer. Her decline has been gradual, and much slower than the doctors first supposed it would be. She can still eat regular table food, but someone has to feed her. She cannot stand and walk, and since she's always been one to get up and down all the time, I'm sure this is very hard for her. Also, she can no longer use the toilet, so one of my constant prayers is that her caregivers are keeping her clean and dry. The hardest of all is that my mother is pretty much incoherent now. It seems as though nobody understands anything she says. <br />
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The last time I visited her was last year for her 76th birthday. I'm sad that I cannot go there and sit with her now, but I am relieved that she is in good hands. And she is in Good Hands, too. She is baptized, and she believes that the One Who died for her on the cross, Jesus the Christ, has taken her punishment for all her sins. And while she is weepy quite a lot these days, soon she will cry no more. Glory be to God.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-79744827662238267942011-10-21T16:35:00.000+09:002011-10-21T16:35:34.994+09:00It's the Little ThingsHere's a short conversation I had the other day.<br />
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Me: What music are you playing now?<br />
Girl: We're playing English Fork Songs.<br />
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There are times when I really enjoy hearing things I'm sure I'd never hear if I didn't live in Japan!Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-58789711381514209172011-09-27T23:50:00.000+09:002011-09-27T23:50:28.838+09:00Just Found This Neat Blog!I like it! It's the <em>Book of Concord</em> in written bites!Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-56590455526809630372011-09-20T16:38:00.000+09:002011-09-20T16:38:27.151+09:00Has it been five months since I last posted?Hello. Long time, no see. No hear. No write. No read. <br />
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Only work. Make lesson plans. Drive. Cook. Do laundry. Check homework. Pull weeds. Go to church. Shower. Eat. Sleep. Repeat.<br />
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Of course, it was a real bother to do much with a computer that often had tantrums. Now that I have a spiffy new computer, and a new semester is starting up, maybe I can get back to blogging. I know that there are a few people who look in on me to see what's happening.<br />
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Must add "Post on my blog" to my list of perpetual acts.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-65053954452187090482011-04-17T22:00:00.000+09:002011-04-17T22:00:20.047+09:00School Situations<span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><span style="font-family: Century;">Some things are settled, and some things are getting there. Since our family is nothing but teachers and students, and we all go to a slew of schools, we’ve been in a kind of limbo ever since the earthquake on March 11. Before I talk about my own family’s situation, let me explain some things in case you’re not familiar with some of <country-region w:st="on"><place w:st="on">Japan</place></country-region>’s educational practices.</span></span> <div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><span style="font-family: Century;">The Japanese school year begins in April and ends in March. Yes, school goes on (pretty much) the entire year. There are breaks, of course, but for most students even during the breaks there’s a reason to go to school once in a while, and there are usually homework assignments or tests to prepare for because your “job” at this stage in life to be studious and learn as much as you can (while it’s “easy”). So, when the earthquake hit, students were at the end of the school year. Things were coming to a close, students were looking forward to graduation ceremonies and having their spring vacation (the only 2 weeks out of the year that you could really feel FREE from teachers and homework). </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><span style="font-family: Century;">Another function of school grounds in many areas is to serve the local community as an evacuation center in case of some emergency. Thus, since most of the evacuation centers were schools, the schools could not continue classes to the end of the school year. Actually, no one was psychologically able to teach or attend classes the first few weeks anyway. While there has already been a start in building temporary housing units for evacuees, there are still a lot of new homeless in school gymnasiums. There have been attempts to put up partitions, so that families can have some sort of privacy from all the others living practically on top of one another. (One TV program showed us how one evacuation center organized themselves into the same neighborhood divisions that existed in their normal neighborhood, so that people could be in proximity to the same people they always live near. It gave them comfort to be near the people they knew and could talk with freely.)</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><span style="font-family: Century;">Ceremonies are a common and frequent part of Japanese culture. Unfortunately, many schools decided to cancel graduation ceremonies. A lot of schools did not cancel, and there were programs on TV showing us the scenes of the graduation ceremony going on with all the evacuees sitting on the gym floor in the background partaking in the milestones of students whose living situations and future plans were now altered drastically. Especially poignant scenes were of parents receiving the graduation certificates of their deceased children. Every graduation ceremony has speeches. There’s the principal’s talk, the student selected to represent the graduating class reading his or her message to the principal, and a parent of one of the graduating students giving thanks to the teachers. Almost all of them tried hard not to break down for this year’s message was atypical: how do you give an inspirational message of a wonderful future in the middle of death and destruction? You cannot say the things you usually say. The things that are usually said would be rather trite this year.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><span style="font-family: Century;">No sooner did the scenes of graduation finish, then we saw scenes of parents with children starting school for the first time. So many of them had already prepared, and now their preparations were for naught. People from all around the country began sending in their children’s old school bags, uniforms, gym clothes, and other supplies, so that not only brand new students, but any student who was in need, would have everything necessary to resume as normal a student life as possible in the upcoming school year. I was amazed at their efficiency in gathering and distributing it all.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><span style="font-family: Century;">So, where are we now? Maybe it would be easier if I went person by person.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><span style="font-family: Century;">Ai goes to a public high school in a town next to <city w:st="on"><place w:st="on">Sendai</place></city>. Last week she went to school almost everyday, but she attended her club activity for the most part. She has two more days of club only then the official school year will begin on the 21<sup>st</sup> of April. That’s about 2 weeks later than usual.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><span style="font-family: Century;">Makoto goes to a public high school in <city w:st="on"><place w:st="on">Sendai</place></city>. He will start classes on the 22<sup>nd</sup>. That’s also about 2 weeks later than usual.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><span style="font-family: Century;">Yuko goes to a public university in a town next to <city w:st="on"><place w:st="on">Sendai</place></city>. I’m still not sure of the exact starting date, but I think it will be around the end of the first week of May. That’s about one month later than usual. (Note: Most educational institutions beyond high school have no classes for two months in the summer and two months in the spring.)</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><span style="font-family: Century;">My husband teaches at three different universities. Two are in <city w:st="on"><place w:st="on">Sendai</place></city>, and I believe they are both beginning at the same time as Yuko’s university. One is in Ishinomaki, and that school will begin the last week of May.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Century;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;">I teach at five different schools. My high school class begins this week, and my junior high school class begins next week. One university will begin the at the end of the first week in May, another (the same one my husband’s at in Ishinomaki) will begin the last week of May, and the Ishinomaki Red Cross Nursing School will begin some time in June. </span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;">On March 29<sup>th</sup>, I learned that all of the staff and students at the Ishinomaki Red Cross Nursing School are alive and well. When I spoke with one of the teachers there by phone, I was on the verge of bursting out in tears of relief. I didn't realize I was so scared until I heard from her. The building is still standing, but the first floor was completely destroyed by the tsunami. They have to find some new facility (perhaps at the <place w:st="on"><placename w:st="on">Red</placename> <placename w:st="on">Cross</placename> <placetype w:st="on">Hospital</placetype></place> itself, or at the other university in town where I also teach once a week.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><span style="font-family: Century;">Things are moving along, and it won’t be much longer before we have our school routines in place. Once again, because all of this earthquake-tsunami-nuclear stuff happened when it did, our household of teachers and students truly were not nearly as bothered or stressed as the majority of people who could not take time off from their vocations even when everything was a living hell. Our hearts still feel so much pain because there was not much we could do at that time to lessen their burdens.</span></span></div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-38505962612781288662011-04-05T11:17:00.000+09:002011-04-05T11:17:06.549+09:00Lunch with My LLL Sendai Friends! April 4th (Monday)<br />
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This morning I got a phone call from a friend (MK) I haven’t seen for about 3 years. And she said that another friend (KI), who I haven’t seen but once or twice since she moved about 15 years ago, was in town, let’s do lunch. I was sure it was a joke, and yet I knew it wasn’t…. since people wouldn't normally make such jokes when you're dealing with the aftermath of the fourth worst earthquake in recent history. So we figured out where to meet, and about an hour before our meeting time, she called again and said she found another friend (YS) to join us.<br />
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Talk about excited! Twenty years ago, I was the one to start a La Leche League group here in Sendai. In those days, there were only a handful of LLL groups in all Japan, and in Sendai there were almost no breastfeeding support groups at all. KI was one of the first women that met me through a lecture I gave at a community center, and through her I learned about an alternative kindergarten her sons went to. <span style="background-color: yellow;">Megumi</span> joined Kangaroo Kindergarten, and KI joined LLL Sendai. We got to know each other really well. Through word of mouth LLL Sendai began to grow and MK joined. KI and MK became LLL Leaders at the same time, and soon after that YS joined LLL. In addition to our monthly meetings, we held weekly play group times so we could have a chance to just hang out with the kids at various mother/baby-friendly spots around town.<br />
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Though we all lived in the same city, we all live quite different lives and are scattered about so that our paths would hardly ever cross. And, of course, you know how it is, you take care of your own family, associate with the people involved in whatever schools or activities your kids are in while they're growing up. And, in Japan, even your kids may not all go to the same schools! Then, too, all of us left LLL behind us since we all were employed outside the home as well.<br />
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What a sharing time it was. I mean, first you want to just look at everybody and be happy that you can see one another again! And then you all are surprised that everyone “hasn’t changed a bit!” (Except for the reading glasses that the two younger ones pulled out of their bags to read the menu!) Then everyone takes turns talking about … the earthquake, the tsunami, the aftermath, comparing experiences … and try to catch up on how old the kids are, what they’re doing, etc. It was such a strange, yet natural time.<br />
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And, for those in the States that might still need some reassurance when I tell them my family is fine, here are a few the things my friends (and their families) have gone through.<br />
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MK: She lives about a 15-minute drive from me. She lives in what the Japanese call a <em>danchi</em>, a suburban residential area on the outskirts of a bigger city. She has her own home, and her first two college-age children are living in Tokyo. She works as a Care Manager in a nursing home on the edge of the center of Sendai city. During the actual 3/11 earthquake, she was at work. During the earthquake there was one resident who was completely oblivious to this huge shaking going on, insisting that she had to go to the toilet right NOW. (I won’t go into all the rest of that, but you can guess…) So, for MK the past 3 weeks have been spent working at the nursing home, with the child-like elderly not understanding why there are only 2 meals a day, and why this and why that. Even the staff has been getting more irritable, since they, too, don’t have much to eat, plus have to deal with getting to and from work, standing in lines to buy 5 items of food (for whatever number of people are at home waiting for them to bring home something to eat), having to stand in lines of 2 liters of water per person per household, and not having electricity (for 2 weeks), running water (for 2.5 weeks), city gas (for 3 weeks). She couldn’t believe that our electricity came back on (and has stayed on all the time) within 48 hours. Her kids in Tokyo couldn’t find any food in the stores in Tokyo, so they contacted her (not sure how) and asked her to send them something to eat. She didn’t have anything to send them, but told them that at least in Tokyo they could find restaurants. They were told to go get at least one real meal at a family restaurant each day. Last week, MK went by bus to Tokyo to see them for a few days. And to finally take a bath.<br />
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KI: She’s the friend that sent me a care package because she imagined we were having as hard a time as her son was. Her first son works in Sendai, and actually he was working in one of his company’s office near the coast. (I think she said Onnagawa, but there was so much talking back and forth that I’m not sure now exactly which town it was.) There was one quick earthquake two days before the 9.0 hit, and since everyone in this part of Japan has been expecting the Big one any year now, his office established on that day precisely where to go to higher ground if/when the Big one comes. Little did they know that 2 days later, their escape plan would be implemented and be successful. KI’s son’s apartment is in the northern part of Sendai, which was not so badly damaged, and he still had his car. So, he and two of his colleagues drove bit by bit over the roads that were still just barely serviceable. What usually would be a 2-hour drive, took 2 days. There were too many people trying to creep away from the coast. Cars would run out of gas, and the people would have to ditch their car and continue on foot. When he got back to his apartment, he learned that it was all blocked off. He wasn’t allowed in it for a few weeks because it needed to pass safety inspections. Rather than go to an evacuation center, he and his friends decided to just live in the car until things got better. So, they would hear that at this place in town you could still buy some take-out food, in that part of town you could find some gas, in another part of town you could go take a bath, and so on. So drive somewhere and park and live and wait it out.<br />
Once KI knew that her first son was alive and safe, her worries turned to her second son. He was in Indonesia trekking around for a few months before starting his new job. How long and how bad could the tsunami be if/when it reached Indonesia? And, where exactly was he anyway? Since she was in Tokyo, she started her search on the internet. (And she found my son Makoto’s name. How odd.) Anyway, her worries were unnecessary we now know, but at the time….. freak out! But you can’t really freak out, because you have to keep calm.<br />
KI works at a daycare center and she’s in charge of the O-year-olds (babies you are under the age of one, I mean). Yes, the little babies, too, were very afraid and stressed out. (And I KNOW that they got lots of loving holding from this retired LLL Leader!) I don’t know how many she tends to at a time or how many others are on staff, but it brought to mind how important each person’s vocation is, no matter what. When your world turns topsy-turvy and you don’t know why, all you can do is look to the one in a better position and long for their help. Poor little babies, but she was there for them.<br />
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YS: Although I had once approached her about becoming a LLL Leader, she was preparing to begin her career as a hula dance teacher. For about 15 years now, she’s built her dance studio and has become known around town as THE hula teacher in Sendai. And, you can imagine how she knows this person who knows so-and-so who’s related to somebody’s best friend from another part of the country. (And I thought Lutheran circles and LLL circles knew you and everybody else!) So, she was able to fill us in on all the details of anything you wanted to know. Even if you didn’t know you wanted or should want to know it! Her family of 3 lives close to one of the subway stations in Sendai. It’s in a hilly area, and got pretty cracked up, I guess. So, although I couldn’t figure out if or how long she was in an evacuation center, I do know that she had lots of evacuation center stories which the other three of us didn’t have. (I’ll write about evacuation centers in another post later.) I’ll share one story she told.<br />
There is another hula teacher she knows well who lives in a small rural town on the way from Sendai to Ishinomaki. She and another person in her car (I’m not sure who it was), were driving away from the tsunami, but the tsunami crashed over her car. The car was in the water, but the car was still on the ground. She didn’t even think, but suddenly forced her car door open, grabbed the person in the passenger seat by the arm and pulled her out of the car. They were able to run away, but she lost her home and her car. I don’t know if she went to an evacuation center or not, I suppose she did at first. But, now she’s in a city about an hour north with her husband’s relatives (I think). Even though she lost her house, her dance studio was still standing. (I’m not sure if the studio was near her house or in another location.) It was all muddy inside, but the mirror wall was in perfect condition. And there was a painting on an easel (I don’t know anything about Hawaiian culture, but apparently this picture is akin to a Hawaiian saint or goddess or something.) And the painting also was not damaged, so, of course, she protected the studio. (What can I say: I have friends who don’t think the same way I do.) ;-)<br />
Now, on to the reason I chose this story to share. This dance teacher, who now has no domicile, wants to begin collecting whatever she can so that people in that area can get back on their feet. THIS is what I have been waiting to hear ever since March 11th. Sitting in my house while being nearly unscathed and witnessing the travesty all around has been just about one of the worst things. I mean, you know how it is, you see some God-awful scene somewhere in the world, and you don’t want to be helpless. You wish you could DO something to help. To make it better. To fix it. To make it GO AWAY! But, most of the time, it’s somewhere else. It’s bad, it’s hell, and it’s not supposed to be that way. You want to stop it and put things right again. But what can you do? Nothing. But look at the TV and be numb with your jaw hanging open and fighting the tears. Or just letting the tears flow freely and not care about wiping them away or that anyone notices you’re crying. So, now YS has my number, and she knows I drive out to Ishinomaki twice a week, and I know that I can start collecting things that people are willing to give away. (I mean, even the evacuation centers will not take used clothing. Everything you donate to the evacuation centers has to be brand new and the packages can never have been opened. I understand their reasoning behind it, but most people have a lot of good things that could be donated to these people who are going to be struggling and suffering for some years to come.) <br />
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And that pretty much sums up my lunch outing today. How blessed I am to have such friends. ;-)<br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">Sorry for the long silence. We have been trying to clean up and normalize our lives a bit since my last post.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">Actually, I had been drafting the nuclear issue that ensued after the tsunami hit two plants pretty hard, but it's been an ongoing event. Quite a few people in the States have been wondering how my family is faring, whether we would stay put, what would we do if such and such happened. How do you answer those questions? How do we know, how do we try to disseminate the information coming to us, how, when, what, where, why, and more? I admit I was tempted to go back to my dear <state w:st="on"><place w:st="on">Michigan</place></state>, and several nights I could not sleep. Thoughts flooding my mind of what would it be like to leave our home and mortgage behind. Well, the home we could leave behind, but the mortgage would follow us anyway. What would it be like to live in <city w:st="on"><place w:st="on">Jackson</place></city> again? In, perhaps my mother’s house, where, perhaps, she could come live with us (instead of at my sister's) in her own house, and we would all live happily ever after. Sure. What would it be like to yank my three kids out of their lives here (although they often tease me about if America’s so wonderful, why are we in Japan), and get them situated in U.S. schools where they would have more adjustments than high school students who change schools for their last year or two of high school from one English-speaking school to another English-speaking school. They would manage, but it wouldn’t be without lots of struggles. What would it be like to look for work over there in <state w:st="on"><place w:st="on">Michigan</place></state>, one of the states with a high unemployment rate already? What would it be like to NOT be able to start receiving my Japanese (Koji’s, too) pension? I’ve paid 23 of the 25 required years of premiums, and I’m going to give that up? What would it be like to leave my husband’s parents behind? They are nearly 90 years old, and I can’t imagine they would be eager to leave <country-region w:st="on"><place w:st="on">Japan</place></country-region> and start over somewhere else. They need their son so much these days. How could we abandon them?</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">The what-if list and the what-would-it-be-like lists can go on and on. They are places the mind and heart can lead you far and wide. It is good to think about these things. It is good to know your options. It is good to be prepared for the worst and hope for the best. But it is not good to dwell on them and despair. It is not good to look within yourself when you should be looking at Jesus. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Let me share something a friend of mine sent me on March 21<sup>st</sup>. I’m not sure where she read this, so I’m unable to credit the original source.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;"><blockquote><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;"><em>Life Thought for the Church: March 20 – Second Sunday in Lent Faith in God’s love for us through Christ brings eternal life (John 3:16). Faith in God’s love for us through Christ brings strength and help for living this life. God will not abandon those for whom He paid such a holy price. This is our hope as we deal with life’s struggles and pains. God’s love is certain no matter what! You can believe it!</em></span></span></div></blockquote><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"></div></span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">This helped me sort out some of my thoughts. I guess, the biggest one being, that there are so many circumstances outside of my control. I don’t believe that all this chaos is God controlling the universe. That’s not what I mean. But, He does allow bad things to happen, and uses even these events to draw people to Himself. C.S. Lewis said in <em>The Problem with Pain</em>, “Pain is God’s megaphone to a dying world.” Wherever I am, I am a little Christ to those around me. (If you ask me, I’m really not a very good one, but that’s another post. And don’t hold your breath waiting for that one!) So here I am until I know otherwise. In any case, all because of the grace of God.</span></span>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-28712455111673326392011-03-19T23:05:00.000+09:002011-03-19T23:05:17.526+09:00Day Four<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">March 14, 2011 (Monday)</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">Another sunny morning! A sunny day always means we can air out our bedding, so everybody had to be up and moving so we could pick up the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">futon</i> in the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">tatami</i> room and drape them over some chairs so that air could circulate and freshen them up. Our <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">tatami </i>room is next to the living room, and it’s also the room where my husband and I sleep. Now, though, all five of us were sleeping wall to wall. Talk about the “family bed!”</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">The kids got to fetch LOTS of water, and I was able to wash two loads of laundry. It sure took a long time! I had to operate the machine manually since we didn’t have running water, and had to keep dumping pickle buckets of water into the machine every time you turned around! What usually would be a one hour task in which you put the clothes in the machine and push a button and leave the machine to do everything on its own until it calls you with it’s I’m-finished beeps, took nearly four hours. There must be a better way to do this! (Hopefully we’ll have running water again soon so I don’t have to hurt my head thinking how.)</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">In between dumping buckets, I tried to get our a.m. meal ready. That was a bit easier because I could cook on my IH range top and even use the microwave as usual. But when it came time to wash the dishes, that too, took a lot more time than I was expecting. I was having a hard time remembering which buckets of water were for cooking and which were for washing. We were using water from different sources. The water from one neighbor’s well was not yet clear, but it wasn’t sandy. The water from another neighbor’s spring was a little cloudy, so we didn’t want to use that for cooking. Oh, and we also had river water in the buckets to use for flushing the toilet. It gave me some insight into those times and places where people (usually women) had to go to a community well to secure water for their family. We are so spoiled. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">Back to fixing our A.M. meal (I call it that because we decided we would eat only twice a day until we are sure that we’ll be able to get around and go shopping). I was listening to our emergency radio, and all of a sudden there was a song. It was the fourth day since the earthquake happened, and the radio was always reporting on the earthquake and tsunami horrors. For the first time I cried. A song. I don’t even remember what song it was, but it touched that place in my heart that reminds you that there are depths where no one can go. No one, and sometimes even you yourself dare not go there for fear that what you see deep down there is too much for you to handle. They (who are they?) say that music soothes the soul. I suppose it does, but there are times when I’m listening to Tschaikowsky or Mozart when I have to stop everything I’m doing and just BE in that music. It pierces my heart and makes me yearn for whatever it is that is good to be true and to come now. That’s what happened when I heard that song. I cried and was glad, because it gave me, and not only me (I mused), but all the other listeners as well, hope. Hope that this would soon be over and we could resume our lives in spite of all the damage done.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">Then, after finishing the morning dishes, and getting the laundry out to dry, as though I hadn’t even had that tearful moment, I was irked because it started to rain and to feel cold. The weather report said it would turn to snow and continue until the weekend. Oh, that’s just great!</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-23959912154179916422011-03-18T22:42:00.001+09:002011-03-19T01:05:05.982+09:00Day Three<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">March 13, 2011 (Sunday)</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">Sunday morning arrived with a long list of things that need doing. And even though the list was long, most things would not get checked off. Usually I try to go to the 9:00 a.m. service at my church (and I rush back home to get lunch for my family), but this day I didn’t go. We did have our pancakes as we tend to do on Sundays. Some frozen blueberries were thawing out right there in the freezer drawer, so we plopped them five per pancake. They tasted really yummy. I think it was the ashes from our outdoor fire that added the right touch. We ate something else, too, but I can’t even remember now (I’m writing this 5 days later) what we had. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">The bulk of the morning was spent getting water, and boiling it over and over and over again, so that we all could wash our bodies and shampoo our heads. Not knowing how long we’d have to live like campers, we tried to gather more wood, too. Dad and Ai went up the hill to a neighbor’s house to use their well, and when they came back, they brought Ayumi-chan. She was the cute little granddaughter in the family, and it was our first time to meet her. She told me that she and Ai had already become great friends. When I asked her how old she was, she told me she was six, and that she’d be starting first grade when the calendar turns to the 4 page (in other words, April).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>After a while, she noticed I was different. She exclaimed, “Oh, an American mother!”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> Yuko</span> came into the room, and Ayumi announced that she and Ai were friends. Yuko pouted a little and asked if she could be friends, too. Ayumi cheerfully agreed. But then when we said there was one more kid in our family, a big boy, Ayumi quickly said, “Oh, I’m not good at [being friends with] boys!”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was fun having her here. I love how kids are just plain real. They got out our Red Flyer wagon, played games in the yard, and could just have some fun for a few hours. It was like the good old days. ;-)</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">As it was sunny and clear, it was a good time to finally go upstairs and see what to do about the place. There are four rooms and a toilet closet. The toilet and the hallway were the only places where you could see the floor at all! None of the furniture had fallen over, but some in my room had moved away from the wall. The closet doors in all of the kids’ rooms had been thrown open, and the contents all jumbled and/or tossed into the rooms. The most I could accomplish was to clear a path in my own room so that I could get to the south window where I have a laundry pole set up to dry our laundry indoors when the weather is bad. Then I folded laundry, other clothes that were scattered all about, and untangled hangers. Then it was time for a coffee break!</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">After our break, I was sitting in the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">tatami</i> room where we had all of our <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">futon</i> airing out and soaking in the sunshine. If it were a regular Sunday, I probably would have taken my ritual nap. Instead, I read for a while in my <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Treasury of Daily Prayer</i>, and prayed that those that were worried about us would soon learn that we were fine. Then it was time to do some kitchen work and make sure we would have a decent supper. During that time, I was listening to our emergency radio. The reports were so awful, so much damage done, so many lives lost, so many needing to evacuate, so many, so many, too many! Then I tried to read the newspaper. Yes, the newspaper had been delivered. It was only a few pages, and all the news was about the Great Tohoku Kanto Earthquake. As I was taking in the enormity of this disaster, ---</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Century;"><place w:st="on"></place><span lang="EN-US">Ai gasped, “The electricity is on!” She was looking at the air conditioner on the east wall of our living room, and we could see the little lights blinking and the vent flaps closing. Oh! We scrambled up, she to try to recharge her cell phone, I mean PHS, and I to turn on my lap top. We shouted out to everyone else. The lap top needs time to warm up, so during that time, I ran all over the house testing switches and feeling happy. Just the day before, my husband had gone out and bought these nice little flashlights that have a strap and clip (like a pen does) so we each could have our own, but now we would be able to save our flashlight power for another time! Turning on my lap top these days usually means my cyber life is beckoning me, so, of course, the first thing to check is whether or not I can get online. Success! THAT means the telephone lines work, and THAT means I can call Megumi! So, I did. And she cried joyful tears of relief. And the phone got passed around. And I was able to let others know via the internet* that we were alive!</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">*Kudos to Mr. Gore for inventing the Internet!</span></span></div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-69164077200531686782011-03-17T21:42:00.000+09:002011-03-17T21:42:39.034+09:00Day Two<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">March 12, 2011 (Saturday)</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">Hubby was up and ready to go sooner than usual. He still didn’t really know where to go, though. He went to the same spot where he had dropped Makoto off the previous morning, but there was nothing there. When he told me that, my mind started suspecting all kinds of foul possibilities. (But we won’t go there!)</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">He went (I think to one of our local evacuation spots) to see if he could get directions from someone in Atusya’s neighborhood. Somehow he found Atsuya’s house, and even though they were very worried about their grandfather who lives in a coastal area that was severely hit by the tsunami, his mother told him and his older brother to go with my husband and seek out the head office to see what information they could find about Makoto’s whereabouts. I think they were gone between four and five hours trying to maneuver in traffic that was hardly moving, people carefully creeping along and taking turns yielding to other drivers at intersections where none of the traffic lights were working. (Think back to last night! Driving in those conditions in the pitch blackness of a city full of lights throughout an ordinary night!)</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">I don’t remember what time Makoto got home, but someone from his workplace brought him home. He was fine. And I could breathe again. (I have to confess that I was a bit forlorn that he didn’t want to hug his mommy.) My boy was okay, and his first words were, “Where’s Dad?”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“He’s out looking for you.” “What for?”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ARGHHHH Can you tell he’s 17?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>;-)</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">The rest of the day was spent inspecting the house. Dad determined that the foundation was still safe, no gaps or cracks anywhere, no broken windows, and the roof seemed to be fine. The Chair of our neighborhood association was making his rounds, and he was glad to hear that our son was home. My main job was to prioritize perishable food and eat that before it would spoil. The kids gathered firewood. (We can do that since we live in a rural area.) We had to set up a bucket toilet system, and hubby went out to see if he could get any other supplies we might need. We had plenty of water which I had been saving up over the past few years for the BIG earthquake that everyone knew would be coming. And spring was in the air.</span></span></div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-37333576950827344122011-03-17T01:16:00.000+09:002011-03-17T01:16:01.351+09:00Day One (at My House) of The Great Tohoku Kanto Earthquake<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">March 11, 2011</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">We (my husband, 16-year-old Ai, and I) had just finished a late lunch. Ai was brushing her teeth and I was getting my things ready to take her (and me) to the dentist. And then the shaking began. It was 2:46 p.m. Japan Standard Time. It was the strongest and longest I had ever felt. Hubby stayed in the kitchen, holding our tall filing cabinet so that it would stay in the little storage area under the staircase. I shouted out for Ai to get to a safe place, and I scrambled under our living room table. Most earthquakes are a quick swaying or a shudder or a jump and might last up to 15 seconds or so (at least that is what the fireman explained at my last Fire Prevention Club ( </span></span><span style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ascii-font-family: Century; mso-hansi-font-family: Century;">防火クラブ</span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;"> ) just the previous Sunday), but this one must have went on for a good three minutes. I wondered if it would never stop.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">All over the house you could hear things falling, bouncing and breaking. Not all, but a good number of glasses and dishes fell out of the dish cupboard in the kitchen and crashed into smithereens. When it quieted down, I quickly wiped up some Worcester sauce that had spilled in the kitchen, but in the middle of that task I had to dive back under the table in the living room for repeated rumbles. The following hour was spent picking up the broken glass and cowering under the table. Ai had been hiding in the toilet room on the first floor, but then came and joined me under the living room table. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">Around 3:40, we decided Ai and I should get in my car. It would be safer there since nothing could fall on us. So, Ai and I huddled in my car while the man of the house took his car to two different neighbors to check on the great-grandmothers who may have been all alone. (They both seemed to have already been fetched by other of their family members.) And there in the car, Ai and I watched the car TV. We saw the tsunami come into <city w:st="on">Sendai</city> airport, and I immediately thought that Megumi would have to cancel her plans to fly into <city w:st="on"><place w:st="on">Sendai</place></city> airport in another two weeks. Then we saw more horrors of tsunamis extending far beyond the scope of where we thought the earthquake was really taking place. And I began to be frightened about where Yuko and Makoto were. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">By 6:00 p.m., Dad decided it was time to go looking for Makoto. We had no idea where he might be! Dad had dropped him off at a meeting place near Izumi-chuo station at just past 8:00 a.m. It was his first day of a part-time job as one of hands of a team of movers. After reporting to work, he would be told where the moving company would be using him that day. So, we truly had no idea where in town he could have been. I can’t even remember the time slots, but my husband went out three times – once alone, once with Ai, and once with Yuko. He and Yuko returned at 2:00 a.m.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0mm 0mm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: Century;">Yuko had come home at 6:30 p.m. She brought home some bottled water, bread and batteries. And in the dark, we three gathered something to eat. I don’t even remember what now. We still had running water, but the electricity went off exactly when the earthquake began and we sat in the candle light at the kitchen table trying to put ourselves in Makoto’s place wondering what he’d do if he were in this place or that. And all we could come up with was that we had no idea how he might do anything at all! It was still possible to send text messages via cell phones, but our family uses PHS. (Oh, we are such a backwards, not-with-it family!) So, we texted Makoto every hour (or maybe it was more), and Yuko sent Megumi an email to let her know that 4 of us were fine. Oh, I felt just awful telling Megumi that we didn’t even know where Makoto was. They are so close, and with her on the other side of the world….. She was quite stressed out for a few days trying to get some news about our happenings.</span></span></div><br />
to be continued...Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-44094115806329592192011-03-17T01:01:00.000+09:002011-03-17T01:01:52.009+09:00My Family and I are All Right!If you haven't heard by now, Japan had a 9.0 earthquake last week Friday. We live fairly close to the epicenter, but are more inland near the mountains in the northern part of Sendai. We've been able to stay in our own home, and our neighbors have offered to let us share their fresh springs and well water. I will try to post some of our experiences in the next few days, but in the meantime.....<br />
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Please consider helping by sending a donation to the site mentioned in <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=99r3B2iBdt4">this video</a>. I work in Ishinomaki twice a week. One of my classes is at the Ishinomaki Red Cross Nursing School, and this video will give you a glimpse of some of the roads I travel when I go there.<br />
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Tonight my family was watching tv and in a scene of the tsunami washing away this part of Ishinomaki, there were two things that were left standing. There was a Statue of Liberty (I have no idea what that was about. It may have been a restaurant?). And the Russian Orthodox Church (which is not the building the Ishinomaki congregation uses anymore) which is of historical significance in this once booming port town in the northeastern part of Japan's main island.<br />
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Be not afraid. God will waste not one thing in spite of all that goes on around us.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-45920801959141721292011-02-25T15:35:00.000+09:002011-02-25T15:35:03.754+09:00My Mom and 4/5ths of Her GirlsMy Mom celebrated her 76th birthday on 10-10-10, and here are two pictures of me, 3 of my 4 sisters, and my mom.<br />
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While we were arranging ourselves around mom and her chair, someone in the family looking on commented on how we looked just like "Little Women." Well, maybe...<br />
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Then some smart aleck relative (which could have been any of us, come to think of it) said he thought we looked more like the "Golden Girls!" And that got us going...<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: black;">It's been several months since I've posted anything at all. After spending most of September in bouts of crying about not having been to go be with my dying mother since her battle with cancer began, we decided that it was time for me to go see her as soon as I could. I was looking at my schedule to see how to juggle my classes to get there for Christmas, but my husband said Christmas might be too late. So, I juggled my classes and squeezed in a ten-day visit in October. Her cancer had entered her brain in the latter part of August, and she began living with my first younger sister's family. Although she's not suffering any pain, her life is basically walking to and fro from her bed in the bedroom nearest the livingroom to her chair in the livingroom. We celebrated her 76th birthday on 10-10-10, and I saw relatives that I had not seen since I've come to Japan. (One of my aunts was shocked to see me drinking beer. She still pictured me as an under-age teen, I guess!)</span><br />
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Mom is still about the same as she was when I saw her in October, so I guess I could have gone for Christmas, but... Hindsight is 50/50 they say. And they are right. <br />
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After returning from seeing Mom, I never got around to blogging again because I had to catch up with my regular everyday vocations! I'm still not caught up, but wanted to come up for air to let you know that I am still around and hope to be a better blogger in 2011. <cough, cough="">Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-7524968479099094142010-09-02T22:07:00.000+09:002010-09-02T22:07:19.284+09:00How Do You Read the Bible?How do you read the Bible? Do you read it as though it's just a literary work, a book of long-ago myths? Do you read it as a manual? Is it a how-to book so that you can attain a life of purpose and personal fullfillment? Do you read it because someone told you that you have to, or God will not come to your aid? Do you read it as a check list? Is it the way that you tally all the good things you have done, and make public what a good person you are? Are you determined to be in the Book of Life because you've read the Bible cover to cover, inside out and have memorized a million verses? Or do you just want to know Jesus and His love for you, and not only you, but the whole world? <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LkNa6tLWrqk">Here's</a> "What the Bible is Bascially About!"Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-86033719428368747132010-08-25T23:20:00.000+09:002010-08-25T23:20:54.954+09:00Five Minutes a Day with Luther<a href="http://lcmssermons.com/5mins.php?d=2010-08-25">August 25, 2010</a><br />
by Pastor Robin Fish<br />
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<strong>2 Peter 1:5</strong> Now for this very reason also, applying all diligence, in your faith supply moral excellence, and in your moral excellence, knowledge.<br />
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Here St. Peter takes up the admonition, that they should demonstrate their faith by good works. Since such great blessing is bestowed upon you through faith (he would say), that you really have all that God is, do this in addition: be diligent, that is to say, not sluggish; in your faith supply moral excellence; that is, let your faith break out before the world, so as to be zealous, busy, powerful, and active, and to do many works; do not let it remain idle and unfruitful. You have a good inheritance and a good field, but see to it that you do not let thistles and weeds grow upon it. Discrimination or knowledge is, in the first place, something which one should manifest in outward conduct, and the morality of faith, in accordance with reason. For we should bridle and check the body, to the end that we may be sober, vigorous, and fitted for good works. We should not torture and mortify ourselves as some famous saints have done. For though God is likewise opposed to the sins that remain in the flesh, yet does He not require that for this reason you should destroy the body. Its viciousness and caprice you should guard against. Still, you are not to ruin or injure the body, but give it its food and refreshment that it may remain sound and in living vigor. In the second place, discrimination, here, means that one should lead life deliberately, and act with discretion in regard to outward things, such as food and things of that sort; that one should not act in these things without thinking, and that he should give his neighbor no provocation.<br />
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<blockquote><div style="text-align: center;">Holy Father! Thou hast taught me</div><div style="text-align: center;">I should live to Thee alone;</div><div style="text-align: center;">Year by year Thy hand hath brought me</div><div style="text-align: center;">On through dangers oft unknown,</div><div style="text-align: center;">When I wandered, Thou hast found me;</div><div style="text-align: center;">When I doubted, sent me light;</div><div style="text-align: center;">Still Thine arm has been around me,</div><div style="text-align: center;">All my paths were in Thy sight.</div></blockquote>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711071445338588043.post-71904236929732917992010-08-12T10:19:00.000+09:002010-08-12T10:19:21.835+09:00Birthday WeekOn August 7th, one of my nieces (also my Goddaughter) celebrated her 18th birthday. When did she grow up? On the 11th, my husband had his big day. For once all of us were home to eat the evening meal together. Cake at 9:00 p.m. was a bit late, but he blew out all 8 of his candles. (I couldn't afford to buy 53 candles. Plus the cake was not even big enough for more than 10. I don't know why Ai put only 8 on the cake, but that's what it was.) On the 15th, another niece will be having her 14th birthday. She spent the early part of her summer vacation on the border of life or death when she had to have emergency brain surgery. She's back home now and recuperating rather well. A wonderful miracle.<br />
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But, the birthday I really want to mention belongs to <a href="http://atlasshrugs2000.typepad.com/atlas_shrugs/2010/08/happy-birthday-rifqa.html">Rifqa Bary</a>. She has been through a very difficult year, and now she has been awarded her freedom. I think of her often, and shall continue to hope and pray that she will be well. God bless her and all the people that helped her arrive safely to see 18.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01098951324693367994noreply@blogger.com0